Your game. … is non-existing and a string of failures.
You have been turned-down, saw that pretty lass getting totally hooked-up on that asshole.
You have had an entire string of girl-friends but never a girlfriend.

You did as you were told.
Picked her up in your ride.
Offered a listening ear.
Stood, or attempted to stand, by her side when her shit went down.
Tried more daring talk which amounted to miscommunication and awkward silence.

You failed.
You have no game.
You practiced submission.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not here to discuss your sexual deviancy and fetishes.
Nor to comment on it.
If you don’t want another girl-friend but a girlfriend, you have to step it up.

Stay Hungry. Step it up.

We all have seen it on television and media.
The super-rich with their mansions, cars, expensive dresses and jewelry.
Going to venues which cost a small fortune.
To us, the common man, some of these things are unfathomable expensive.

It might also be the case we are just envious on that new car John from IT bought.
Or the new barbecue set our friendly neighbor bought.
Or that sweet trip to a small exotic paradise your closest friends went to.

We all would LOVE to get some hard cold cash in our pockets.
We all know money does not make happier but we do know it makes a lot of things more easy.
Even the low-budget trotter will admit that a bit of cash and a bit of investment will smoothen the trip.

And, by all means, no one is eager to go backpacking when hitting 60 to 70 years of age. We preferably stay in a hotel or other comfy place for our vocational purposes.

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The first step in managing your expenses is to think.
You need an overview of what expenses you have.
The most important expenses are those to your survival. These are the TIER ONE – expenses.

Cutting expenses down in this tier implies taking the risk of increasing your expenses on the long run.
An example might be medical bills and expenses.
But going for a “cheaper” alternative you might get different side-effects.
These side-effects might cause you to take other medications to counter it.
The few pennies “saved” (and a few additional dollars) are immediately used up to buy other medication to counter the effects.
Even worse, the side-effects may cause you to be less focused, less energetic and/or leave you in a semi-catatonic state that negatively impacts your productivity.

Does it mean you shouldn’t touch these?
NO.
But you must be wary when making modifications in this tier.
These expenses MUST be payed no matter what.

Learn to cut and keep your expenses with “Draining The Swamp”.

First…
…you must invest in yourself.
Dead-beat advice, but so important.
So important in fact that many self-made millionaires and billionaires quote this as their first advice.

What implies investing in yourself?
The first reaction of many is to buy new stuff for themselves.
Watches, clothes, cigars, spirits, etc…
This is not investing in yourself.
This is increasing your expenses to look expensive.
You are not investing but wasting money.

What is implied here is to invest in yourself.

It means restructuring your schedules and creating time to be productive.
It means creating new habits that help you develop new skills.
It means getting educated in your (newly acquired) spare time.
It means being productive during your “me”-time.

In short, to invest in yourself means creating and opening time to be productive.

What happen when you master ALL of this?
You become a Self-Made man.
Charming, dauntless, ambitious and achieving.
You become “New Money”.
Wherever you go, money and success follow suit.

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